Monita has had at least 6 Facebook accounts most not using her real name since Craig knew her. She said she had to change them as she has had stalkers, like her ex friends the doctor who hacked her account, Dave, Wayne etc all of whom fell in love with her and crossed the line of good manners as Monita put it.

Facebook wasn’t healthy for their relationship. Monita Neume’s continued to threaten to leave Craig over FB. She tried many ploys to do so. Then she'd send pictures of her cousin and boyfriend on FB to Craig and said, I wish we could be like this.

Monita said she wasn't going to talk to Craig for a month unless he added her on Facebook. Craig was stubborn and stupidly said 'fine' as he was tired of her obsession with it.

Craig also talked to his ex Wazzie about Monita. Waz invited Monita to visit their daughter, Craig said Monita would love that. Then Craig shared how Monita was obsessed about him adding her on Facebook as his girlfriend, Waz said she understood and that Monita just wanted public acknowledgement of their relationship. Then Craig said he was scared of that because of how in his and Wazzies relationship had been public and Craig’s ex Carol kept harassing (and contacting Waz) and it really upset Wazzie and he didn’t want that to happen with Monita. That he liked things being private to protect ther relationship. Waz disagreed and said he should do as Monita wanted. In hindsight this was good advice.  

So Craig, stopped using his phone and didn’t talk to her for a short time. This was difficult for them both as they had talk and communicated for many hours every day. More so for Monita, she sent him numerous messages saying she needed him, that he was not there for her, begging him to talk to her. The voice messages in WhatsApp are quite upsetting. But Craig wasn’t checking his messages and didn’t know.

Unfortunately, Craig was stubborn. Monita needing attention started contacting her sister in-laws Hanaddis cousin. He was always messaging her every day for as long as Craig can remember. She ended up betraying Craig with him. Then he died, and Monita would call Craig upset over it. It was surprizing for Craig as Monita had called him a stalker and obsessed by her and she wanted nothing to do with him (but Monita said she couldn’t block him or else it would cause a family argument). But her tears kept flowing and she said without thinking; "oh why, oh why oh God why did he have to die, I miss him so much". Then Monita admitted to Craig she'd betrayed him. It was obvious to Craig then she was needy and maybe she didn’t love Craig but loved his attention and contact. This betrayal was disappointing for Craig. His heart hardened for a time and was a little cold with Monita. But he loved her and realised we all make mistakes in life and forgave her. But there were still some trust issues now that had never been there before.

Monita threatened to commit suicide 6 times to Craig, one time saying she was in hospital over it as she had a mental breakdown. Another time she said she car crash over it. Monita said she needed him to add her on Facebook, but the reality is she was sick with her obsessiveness and need to always get what she wanted. Craig was in part to blame to, he was stubborn and still upset over her betrayal so didn’t do as she wanted. In hindsight he should have relented sooner and added her, but betrayal makes a good person unreasonable sometimes. Sometimes we lose sight of the things that are important to us when we become upset.

Monita continued to obsesses, harass and threaten Craig over Facebook and adding her and adding her as his girlfriend, even going so far as to threaten to leave him.